ThirtyWON For A Polished Man

After celebrating my 30th birthday last year(check out that blog here), I had started to make plans for my 31st. Like Jackie Christie said in one of her many ponderosas, if you keep planning a wedding, you won’t have to plan for a divorce. So with that same zeal, if I keep planning for my…

But My Skin Is Black, Too

I recently released an episode on my podcast that touched my experiences being Black in Japan. On that episode, I shared three but only detailed two. The third, gave me pause especially it being Black History Month. Actually, I had recorded the episode with the third experience being spoken to more at length but I…

More Than An Emoji

If you’ve been following Southern Charm since the beginning, you should be able to admit to yourself that this cast questionable since inception. If you’ve never seen the show, it still might be worth your while to continue reading. When the show first aired, the cast would go at length about their family’s long history…

A Seemingly Uncontrollable Monster: Cancel Culture

So much has happened in the world of reality tv this past week, that has now crossed over into the real world. If you don’t know what I’m talking about, click here then come back. For those who are aware of all that’s taken place, indulge me for a moment. You may not agree but…

I Have Something To Say About Faith, Kristen and Stassi

Another day, another cancellation. You’re probably wondering what I’m talking about. Well, if you aren’t a BravoTV viewer, or follow my Twitter you probably won’t have knowledge of this subject matter. Let me get you up to speed. When the Vanderpump Rules trailer and cast information were released for its current season, someone did a…

30 Years Around The Sun

As soon as February 18, 2019 ended, I was faced with the reality that 2019 was going to be my last year being 20+. I knew then I had to make the best of being Twenty Nine and that I did and that I did *winks* (more on this later).  Last year I wanted to…

Seven Months to Twenty Nine

7 months ago I had an idea of making my 29th birthday one for the books. I wanted something unlike my usual dinner and or trip. I wanted a tea party. Sounds a bit lame when you think about it. But, I didn’t want just any tea party, I wanted it to be very posh,…

Liam Neeson Is Guilty And Piers Morgan Is Still No Ally

Another day, another ‘shocking‘ reveal. Why is it February, Black History Month, and we are trying to decide whether a white man, admitting he wanted to kill any Black man he came across, was a racist thought to have? Then again, would it even be a true Black History Month without some type of controversy, involving a white person?…

Pops for Christmas

It’s that time of year again, Christmas. I’m always excited for Christmas because there’s always something new to look forward to. As usual I did my Christmas card photoshoot a month ago with the help of a very good friend, Dani (Check out her instagram if you are a cat lover). I had a theme in mind…

Guiltless: It’s Not Selfish To Choose You

How I Learnt How To Live With Distance In March of this year, I took a trip to see my family in America. What I didn’t expect were the type discussions I’d be having with some relatives while on this trip. I usually have a detailed itinerary of what I plan to do, even when I’d take…